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[quote=Anonymous]My two best APs were/are (one is my current) drop dead gorgeous.  Beautiful faces and figures.     They were also beautiful on the inside and incredibly mature (both just out of high school).   They were both naturally pretty and they were not overly made-up in their profiles (or in real life).  Both presented in their profiles as gorgeous and sporty - it didn't seem like they were trying to "be" more or less pretty than they were.   Neither had any interest in dating American guys (and were generally not boy crazy at all).  Their attractiveness presented no issues whatsoever.

I am not sure I'd use attractiveness as a way to weed people in or out, and I wouldn't want an AP who felt compelled to either hide or play up her attractiveness in order to match - i want girls who are comfortable with who they are 100 percent and present themselves accordingly during matching.  If a candidate's profile shows her as overly made up, with no "natural" pix, and dressed inappropriately, I'd probably not even click on them.  My 11 y o. DD needs a good role model -   and both of my gorgeous APs who presented themselves in their profiles as exactly who they were, and who were clearly comfortable in their own skin, turned out to be PERFECT role models. 
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