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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is awesome that you love your charges so much, as do I. Just remember to always keep in the back of your mind that someday they will no longer need you, and you will have to move on. You may not see them often or even ever again, depending on the circumstances of course. But knowing you are providing them with the best care, right here right now is an amazing feeling. [/quote]

Keeping something like that in the back of your mind does nothing but borrow future pain.  Enjoy today, OP, and love with abandon!

It is a very lucky family to have you.  [/quote]

It is not about borrowing future pain, it is about maintaining proper boundaries.[/quote]

I don't think about not being with my current charges either.  If you like or love your charges, it taints the relationship, and I would hold back too much.  If I don't like my charges (usually only at the beginning with very difficult issues), it also taints the relationship, and I would be less likely to keep trying to have the child open up.  Either way, I can't and won't do that to a child.[/quote]

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