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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Rarely, but I've had nannies for a long time now. If she does something annoying/wrong/whatever, I try to take the time to think through whether my reaction is reasonable. If not, I let it go, if yes, I figure out how to address it with her.

I'm an employer, not her coworker. If I have a complaint, it's my job to clear the air and let her try to fix it, not poison the well against her.

My DH, however ... well, let's just say I've told him that I don't want to hear it anymore.[/quote]

Why doesn't he like her?[/quote]

His least attractive quality is that he blames others for everything. She's convenient if something is missing/broken, or a child misbehaves. It's so egregious that I don't even care to hear it when he has a genuine, reasonable issue with something she's done.[/quote]

Have a feeling this is common with DB's. Am pretty sure mine complains about me a lot and that it influences MB. I always notice a change in her the day after DB has been working from home and so been around me and seen how I worked. I work hard of course but he most likely disagrees. I also know he blamed me for 'hiding' the doorkey (spare key which HE lost) as my charge told me.[/quote]

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