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[quote=Anonymous]I don't think you're overreacting. Yes, these kinds of things happen with young kids, and it's a great thing that your child knew what to do.

But I do think you have to discuss this with her. If this is the first such situation, I'd phrase it as something you haven't discussed but your DS mentioned getting lost in a store and you need to know if something like this happened. I would place the focus on it helps to know when he gets lost in whatever situation so you can make sure he knows what to do as well as address with him the importance of staying close to the nanny when on an outing.

If this has happened before, then I think you need to address this with her as a problem of whether or not she can handle both kids in certain situations and perhaps deciding together to change situations she cannot handle. I also think you should talk about why she didn't tell you and that, combined with past situations, is making you uncomfortable and less inclined to trust her.

It sounds like the first situation, so just talk to her about letting you know and move on. You sound like a thoughtful MB and not likely to make it a bigger deal than it is.[/quote]

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