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[quote=Anonymous]Why are you getting so defensive, OP? No one is suggesting that you should be on call all the time. We are only saying that maybe your nanny family feels that way. It may not be fair, but this will not change if you don't speak up. We could all say how awful it is for them to treat you this way, but we also don't know what your arrangement with them was or how clearly each of these issues was spelled out. Everyone's best guess, based on the responses here, is that the NF thought you would be much more available much more frequently than you thought you were agreeing to. That means that you need to ask for a meeting to hammer this stuff out, not just be unhappy and stew about it. It also means that you may hear that they want someone who is, in fact, willing to give up most of her weekday evenings, and you will have to decide if that means you need to quit.[/quote]
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