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[quote=Anonymous]If this is becoming a regular situation, then the time is now to say that you need to talk to them about it. Decide what you would like the outcome to be so that you can go in knowing what is and is not acceptable to you. For example, are you willing to work those later hours at all if it's not an emergency? Are you willing to schedule them for particular days of the week, or only when they are requested well in advance, with the understanding that you can say "no" if you have other plans? Do you want to go to a pure hourly system where you keep a log of your hours, morning and evening, or keep having scheduled hours? Think this through, so that if they ask for something you aren't willing to do (like suggest that the reason they hired a live-in was so that they didn't have to ever worry about ending times), you will speak up right then and not get forced into a agreeing to something you aren't willing to do.[/quote]
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