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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Great job OP!!!!  Handle the situation like an adult. Tell her that you would like to schedule a time to discuss the situation with both parents and be sure that it is done on the clock. Be real with her. Tell her that her son could have easily died in the care of a less knowledgeable or less attentive caregiver. Tell her that you are sorry that her son has a bruise, but it is very common that a bruise is left when the heimlich is done on a baby and that you are extremely happy that the procedure was successful. Express to her that you have never been tested in such a scary way and that you are beyond pleased with your performance and hope they are as well. [/quote]

Bull! OP has nothing to explain or apologize for.  She saved this child's life and the mother should be on her knees begging OP to forgive her outrageous and unconscionable reaction.  If she doesn't apologize OP should find a new job.[/quote]

Grow up!!! There is nothing wrong with saying,  "Sorry Larlo has a bruise on his back, but it is very common when giving a baby the heimlich."  You can be sorry something has happened while not being sorry about what you did. The mother is having a hard time with this and handled it inappropriately. It is time for the nanny to take the lead, handle it appropriately, and address the mother's concerns. I also think the father should be a part of this conversation as the mother seems to not be able to wrap her head around this. The mother is having a hard time and it needs to be addressed in a responsible manner. Did you stop reading at apologize or are you naturally defensive? [/quote]

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