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[quote=Anonymous]For a year and a half I've been working for a very sweet family with two boys. The oldest is 4 1/2 and he give me his first hit shortly after I started with them. The problem was very minor back then but it has escalated a lot and now he's bigger and more violent. I report every incident to the parents, and they are genuinely trying to get this kid under control. He is a very angry child. If he wants to do something and you tell him no he throws a huge tantrum. If you try to force him to do anything or if you try to take him to his room/time out you will get hit or kicked. He's even bit his mom before and tried to bite me. If he bumps his head by his own fault he will get very mad and violently hit or throw the thing that hurt him, despite me telling him when that happens just come for a hug, etc.

His brother is 2 1/2 and is showing the same tendencies. Neither boy listens or follows direction, and they can rarely play together without literally physically attacking each other. I am full time but only 4 days a week with these boys, so they have many different caregivers (myself, grandparents, parents, and sometimes a babysitter) and so I feel I can't get anywhere with them - one behavior I finally work out of them only to have it return the next week after a weekend with grandparents.

I'm still with the family because I love the parents and the pay is great, but I'm sick of being hit and kids not listening. [/quote]

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