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[quote=Anonymous]A little background. We have a playgroup that consists of nannies, and few moms. One of the moms who is SAHM is expecting her 3rd child(in a month) she has hired a nanny(her first nanny/babysitter ever) who was referred to her by a member of  our group(another nanny). The nanny who referred her is a friend, the mom who hired the nanny is a friend. The nanny who is working with the child is an acquaintance, who I have know for a year or so. Now we have all been meeting up together since the older children were little, so almost four years. The Nanny that has been hired is okay, she is a little short tempered, and kind of harsh(not abusive/even close) but very different than how the mom parents. I know the mom wouldn't like how the nanny is treating her son, but the son can be a handful. My question is should I mention it to the mom? I have know her a long time, and she is a friend of sorts, I respect her parenting, and I love her child. As nannies we all know that parents are much more lenient when dealing with their own kids, but this nanny is really short with him to the point where I am thinking of disrupting the group dynamic. I am not sure what to do, If I said something and it got back to the group it may cause problems. This has never come up before, we all "parent" is similar ways. I am not really one to say anything, but because the mom and I have know each other for so long I feel like I should, what are your thoughts?
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