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[quote=Anonymous]I would stop using her as a reference for now and see if it makes a difference. She could be sabotaging you in order to have you available if they are trying to get pregnant. Or she may not be doing it on purpose, but she's saying something that is setting off a red flag to potential employers. A few years ago I was using a woman I had sat for casually while in college. It was casual sitting, I had no duties other than playing with her child, and bedtime. There were a couple of times I had job offers pulled after checking my references. Once I did get a new job, my new MB mentioned offhand that one of my references had been weird. She said the woman had said they I never helped her with the laundry or dishes, and that I brought my boyfriend around her kid!!! She invited him in once when he picked me up. It was insane! Like you, I had considered her a friend and thought she was one of my strongest references. [/quote]
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