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[quote=Anonymous]Hi you all.  I don't know how this sounds or how I may even sound I certainly don't want to come across as some crazy mb lol.  But I've been itching to get on here all day to pick some brains about this because my husband seems to not think anything of it. I've never used this part of the site so please be nice! J/k.  This morning it was in the paper that my nanny had married her long term boyfriend/fiancé Saturday evening. She has been with us now going on 8 months though we love her so much and we're so comfortable that it seems like longer.  But I definitely understand it's a professional relationship and I have no right to know her personal life issues and such but I would think something like this would merit mentioning. She is off this week for her vacation and now I see it's her honeymoon. She did know about this vacation well in advance and even mentioned it when we drew up the work agreement.

I guess I just wanted to get this out to others that may give me some insight. But now I wonder if I'm too intrusive and may be bugging her when I try to show interest in her life. What do you all think of this? I would have loved to give her something special or even to attend. Should I act like I don't know? Is getting married something personal now? It crossed my mind that maybe she didn't want me to worry about pregnancy etc but that's not something I would concern myself with, she's great and I'm sure we could get through it. Could she really not even like our family and view this as a regular old job? Which would be her prerogative if that's how she gets through the day.

What say you all? Thanks in advance. And she knows I read the paper but should I keep mum?

And by the way yes she has had a ring on a few times but said it was a commitment ring and she didn't even wear it often and sometimes it would be on the right hand.[/quote]

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