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[quote=Anonymous]Our AP has friends over every night. We are the only family around who allows males, and if we didn't host, our male AP would have to go out all the time. Even when we hosted females, we pretty much were the hangout house. We are happy to have our APs' friends over, and we don't have rules about number of friends allowed.

First, no one in nine years has ever touched the alcohol. I don't even know what to make of that. That would be a stern warning from me the first time and rematch the second. If any of those APs who drinks crashes a car, that is YOUR liability. I would not put up with that for a second.

Secondly, we tell our APs that they are welcome to serve refreshments from our pantry and fridge but they should expect to replace them. Far more commonly, they buy their own and leave them in the fridge downstairs. We don't care if they grab a box of cookies or a bag of chips, but if it ended up a lot of food on a regular basis, this would not be ok with me.

We invite our AP's friends to dinner on a regular basis, and then of course we provide the food. But when AP cooks for his friends, he knows he needs to replace (within reason) what he gives to others.

Your AP sounds either selfish or clueless. Please talk to her and have a reset. Write some clear rules about hosting. And warn her if she touches your alcohol again, she is our. Period. [/quote]

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