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[quote=Anonymous]Our APs don't invite friends over on our dime. Friends are welcome to come over, but buy your own booze and make your own food. We had one AP a few years ago and she had a nice circle of AP friends on the same split schedule. Once per week they would rotate houses and prepare themselves a nice luncheon. No alcohol and they would buy and prepare their meal. I thought that was a really cute idea. But if I had to pay to feed all these people, I would not think it's that cute anymore. OP, I think this is quite simple. Sit down with AP: 'AP, I really like your friends and I am happy that you all enjoy congregating at our home. But I don't think it should be my responsibility to pay for your alcohol and for your friends' food. If this were only once in a while, I would not have an issue with this, but it seems to be happening more and more often. In the future, you and your friends will be responsible for paying for you own.'[/quote]
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