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[quote=Anonymous]For me it depends on how I am treated overall. I had one MB that would always leave messes which I'd clean up and then she'd complain if I left one thing in the sink. One thing. Another who'd leave dishes in the sink, I'd clean them, and ONCE I forgot to sweep under the high chair and I heard about it via text later that evening. So those moms didn't get as many extras from me because I felt taken advantage of when I did extras for them and they complained about every little thing. I currently work for a family who are hands down the absolute messiest people I've ever worked for. Sink full of dishes every day, even if I left the dishwasher empty and all they had to do was pop the plates in and be done with it. Perplexing. But, not one time has she every complained if something wasn't done at the end of the day. (Three kids three and under so there are days when things don't get done.) She's very much a person who takes things at face value. If you have time to do X, great, do it. If not, it will get done eventually. If you think X needs to be done, then have at it but don't wait around on me to do it. I'm more than happy to tackle the shit show I walk into every day because I know 1) she appreciates whatever help she gets and 2) I know she's not going to piss and moan about what didn't get done. She'll appreciate what did. She's not entitled.[/quote]
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