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[quote=Anonymous]MB here, and I may be like your MB.  I have had three nannies, and the two that ended up being with us long term just went along with the flow of the household, which is basically "clean up if you have the time and the inclanation."  If one of the kids are sick, or you spent all morning at the zoo, and you just want to relax while they nap in the afternoon or you are spending the afternoon making a potty training sticker chart, and you can't or sont want to do the dishes, that's fine by me.  I will do them.  And if I can't or don't want to do the dishes one day, then you will return the favor.  
We had one nanny who wasn't with us long who did what the pp above suggested, and she would just handwash *her* dishes and leave the rest for me.  It was really passive aggressive.  She was like that with a lot of things and seemed to think that every mess was some kind of signal to her.  Like if one of the kids left their bike in the yard, she would see it as being left for her to pick up.  
My advice is to do the dishes or don't.  If you don't have te to do the dishes one day, your MB isn't going to fire you.  And if you sometimes leave her the kids lunch dishes to do, then maybe you won't feel so put put by the whole thing.  This isn't a signal about what your job duties.  It's just dishes.
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