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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have given a weeks pay as a bonus for the past 2 years but this year, its too much for us. If I give less, should I explain why? We are still better off than our nanny, but we have some very high expenses this year. I don't want her to think that the lower bonus is a reflection of how we feel about her, but I think she wont understand or believe us if I say we cant afford it. [/quote] Your nanny might be more understanding that you know. I've had this happen twice, and both times I knew it was coming (actually, I didn't get a bonus at all either time). However, what the family did instead made up for it. Each child made me a gift, the parents arranged for me to have 5 days (planned ahead) off during January and February without dipping into PTO or vacation, and the parents tried extra hard to be home on time or early for a while. As long as the nanny knows she's appreciated and doesn't feel like the family is taking advantage, it can work out.[/quote]
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