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[quote=Anonymous]I lov ps my NF of over a year.  I love my charges.  It's the best job I've ever had, I have little to no complaints.  I'm very happy, and quite lucky to have such a perfect position for me.

These past couple weeks have been stressful, so I feel like I'm easily irritated so it's hard for me to rationalize whether or not the situation is appropriate or if I'm being ultra sensitive.  However, yesterday morning I heard my employers in the shower together.  They have a very open floor plan and sound travels and they know this.  I felt disrespected, I do not get paid enough to be subjected to my bosses awkward sex noises.  Nope.  I do not want to hear that early in the morning as I clean up after their kids.  I am not a prude at all, I consider myself pretty damn sex positive.  I get they are a married couple but it's. It like anyone is about to be deployed.  There are many many opportunities to spend time together when I am not here.  I do not live-in, if that was the case of course things would be different.  I could not be intimate with my SO if I knew someone else was in my house and could hear, especially an employer.  I truelly did feel violated, and then I feel like I'm making way too big of a deal and need to let it go.  IF they could manage to do what they please and me not know, that would be fine.  What I don't know doesn't hurt me but....open floor plan. Thin walls, vaulted ceilings...sound travels and I cannot stress how much I don't want to hear it.  At all.  It seems planned, great, spice things up but not when I'm here.  Thankfully I can shut the door in the nursery and not hear anything but sometimes we are still finishing breakfast.

I was actually pissed when this happened yesterday, and that was unexpected.  So, is this innapropriate or am I being a pearl clutched who needs to deal with it?[/quote]

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