You are being ridiculous. They probably had no idea you heard, but either way, you're a grown up. Let them have some of the few alone-times they have without your judgment.

No, you are not being over the top.

This would weird me out too. I mean, like you stated, if someone were being deployed or just got out of jail, I would understand.

But that is not the case.

In all honesty, I would discuss this with the mother. You don't have to be a prude to be annoyed by this sick behavior. They shouldn't be having sex with you in the home, and if they cannot control themselves, at least be more quiet.

Anonymous wrote:They are pigs.

Lol

They are pigs.

If the nanny can hear, the kids can hear.

The kids should be of more concern than any perceived, imagined, disrespect for you.

If they are ok with their kid hearing it, they think it is ok for you to hear it.

Most likely scenario is that they do not realize the sound carries over the sound of the water.

Get over yourself. No one is out to get you and demean you on purpose like you imagine yourself to be.

You should say something. They probably don't know that you can hear them. Or if they do, and they don't care, then maybe they think that you don't care? I doubt that they know that you can hear, it's uncomfortable for you, and they just don't care.

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Anonymous wrote:Nanny here and I must say your are being a little over the top here. It's there home and they shouldn't be subjected to have Intercourse around your schedule. I understand it may seem disrespectful at the moment but I personally do not see any issue here.

I get that, I do. It is there home but I won't lie that it made me feel disrespected. Not enough to say anything, but I was pretty irritated.


I really just wanted to see what the overall census was, from nannies and parents alike.


As I mentioned, frustrating week so I am irritable. Perhaps if this had happened at another time I'd simply be annoyed but laugh it off.

They have no respect for you, OP. Better watch for additional red flags.

Anonymous wrote:This is super inappropriate and you definitely have a right to be mad/uncomfortable. First off, why are you even there if both parents are still home? That would be the first thing to tick me off. And secondly, it's super inappropriate to do that with an employee in the house. I would definitely talk with MB about this.

I'm absolutely not going to say anything. PP is correct, it's there house and they can do as they please in it. It would even be more innapropriate of me to confront either parent, what am I suppose to say?

I just felt irritated, they're suppose to both be getting ready for work. Yet one always mentions how late they are, this could easily be something they do at night or early in the morning.

It's just a bit of a violation in my eyes, or...for my ears. I truelly don't care what they do, it's me having to hear it that upsets me.

Anonymous wrote:Nanny here and I must say your are being a little over the top here. It's there home and they shouldn't be subjected to have Intercourse around your schedule. I understand it may seem disrespectful at the moment but I personally do not see any issue here.

This is so ridiculous. No one should be forced to listen to that and it's very disrespectful towards the nanny.

This is super inappropriate and you definitely have a right to be mad/uncomfortable. First off, why are you even there if both parents are still home? That would be the first thing to tick me off. And secondly, it's super inappropriate to do that with an employee in the house. I would definitely talk with MB about this.

Nanny here and I must say your are being a little over the top here. It's there home and they shouldn't be subjected to have Intercourse around your schedule. I understand it may seem disrespectful at the moment but I personally do not see any issue here.

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I lov ps my NF of over a year. I love my charges. It's the best job I've ever had, I have little to no complaints. I'm very happy, and quite lucky to have such a perfect position for me.


These past couple weeks have been stressful, so I feel like I'm easily irritated so it's hard for me to rationalize whether or not the situation is appropriate or if I'm being ultra sensitive. However, yesterday morning I heard my employers in the shower together. They have a very open floor plan and sound travels and they know this. I felt disrespected, I do not get paid enough to be subjected to my bosses awkward sex noises. Nope. I do not want to hear that early in the morning as I clean up after their kids. I am not a prude at all, I consider myself pretty damn sex positive. I get they are a married couple but it's. It like anyone is about to be deployed. There are many many opportunities to spend time together when I am not here. I do not live-in, if that was the case of course things would be different. I could not be intimate with my SO if I knew someone else was in my house and could hear, especially an employer. I truelly did feel violated, and then I feel like I'm making way too big of a deal and need to let it go. IF they could manage to do what they please and me not know, that would be fine. What I don't know doesn't hurt me but....open floor plan. Thin walls, vaulted ceilings...sound travels and I cannot stress how much I don't want to hear it. At all. It seems planned, great, spice things up but not when I'm here. Thankfully I can shut the door in the nursery and not hear anything but sometimes we are still finishing breakfast.

I was actually pissed when this happened yesterday, and that was unexpected. So, is this innapropriate or am I being a pearl clutched who needs to deal with it?