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[quote=Anonymous]The PP who is MB is right on - she would be horrified if her child ever misbehaved this way....  and THAT's why her kids aren't misbehaving this way. Because she has been setting limits and expects better behavior.

Fistfighting and you have to pull them off each other?  running in parking lot in front of car? Running around store with your phone? And the other thing you had to call about?

I'd start looking TONIGHT for a new job, and then give two weeks notice, or whatever is in your contract.  And between now and then I would not take this child out to a store, etc.

I might even consider this so serious that I would give my notice now (especially if you need to give 1 months' notice) and then start searching for a job.

You can't keep this child safe, and it will be on you when something happens. Also, who wants to be in a work situtation where a child mistreats you consistently?  You're right, the child needs behavior modification and to have immediate consequences for his behavior, but this is a long process and one where parents and nanny (and teachers) are all on the same page.  Given the parents aren't doing anything about it (if they were, they would have told you and him the new regime and they'd be working with you to start having consequences), you can't be the one to start something.

Parents don't seem that worried about his misbehavior, which is another reason why I'd leave.

Yes, she's at the end of her rope, as you say, but she hasn't DONE anything about it other than comment to you.  You need to see action on their part.[/quote]

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