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[quote=Anonymous]The problem isn't that you are calling your mother for this behavior, the problem is that this behavior is so over-the-top that you should have viewed this as a really dire situation much earlier on. The children getting into fist fights? That should have been A huge red flag that prompted a sitdown talk with your employers about the drastic changes that are obviously needed in their household.  The fact that this is the third time that the child's behavior has gotten to the point where he is physically endangering himself or others and that you are just now saying that you think may be some consequences should be put in place tell me that this child is not a good fit for you. This kid needs someone with a lot of experience setting boundaries and maintaining them. He probably need someone with experience working with special needs children, given that his behavior is appropriate for a two-year-old, but he has a five-year-old body and he will need someone who has experience with safely restraining a larger child.  It is wonderful that you love your charges and want to help them, but sometimes the best way to help is to admit that you do not have the tools to fix the problem.  You need to find a new family with much younger children and with them keep in mind that consequences start as early as age one.  [/quote]

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