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[quote=Anonymous]Talk to the child about her behavior when you are leaving long before you are leaving and tell her how you need her to handle your daily departures. Make your exits as quick and painless as possible. I cared for a little girl who used to hide when I was leaving because she could not deal with the good-bye. You need to deal with this now nanny - not only is the child risking your job but also damaging her little psyche. It is not a compliment to you when she cries for you - you are not doing your job correctly if she cannot handle your absences. And the reality is that none of us will be their nanny forever. All nanny jobs end. Parent relationships don't. Your charge will outgrow this stage but you need to help her. I hope the mother doesn't take it personally or the child will use loving you as a weapon to get back at her mother. [/quote]
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