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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Even though I spend the majority of time with your child, I know when to step back and let you be mom. I respect your rules and your moods. I know how hard it is for you to leave your child with me everyday so you can work so I endeavor to make you feel at ease when your child is with me and in charge when your child is with you. I don't give advice, I make suggestions. I don't refer to your child as mine. They are not mine, they are yours. I'm there when you need me and away when you don't. I know when you want to talk and act like you're my friend and when you want to be left alone and act like I'm the help. I'm not your mom or your sister. I'm your employee. But I'm there if you need me. For anything.[/quote]
You're the no-fuss nanny who does whatever she's told to do (and then some), described by PP above, right? Hope your retirement is around the corner, since you must be running ragged, and your MB says you have a damn big bank account, thanks to your having zero boundaries.
Do the kids shit on you to?

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NP here.  Actually, she sounds like a professional with high E.Q. to me.  Going out of one's way to meet the employer's needs does not make one a doormat, it makes one a good employee who is secure enough to know that she doesn't need to be a PITA to get treated with respect.[/quote]

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