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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am new to nanny world. Was a teacher for years and then moved mid-year so thought I'd try the nanny thing. I met a family with 2 awesome kiddos and they seemed nice enough etc. I have been mostly an observer on this board and don't have particularly "thick skin" so please be kind if you don't mind. I have several issues. I am just going to post a couple "biggies" and if you wouldn't mind sharing your thoughts that'd  be great. I am open to hearing it is me and I need to change.

1. This is one of bigger. The older DC is 3 years old. We get along fine most of the time and she seems to like me/bond with me. However sometimes MB works from home and she clings to her and won't listen to me and goes on and on about how she "hates me" etc. Sometimes she is like this toward me at end of day as well. Is this normal? Am I not bonding well enough? Could we be a bad match? I want to do what's best for DC...when I was teaching my students literally LOVED me (or so it seemed) and I loved them too...

2. I feel micromanaged at times. I have a double masters in education and child development and still MB will leave notes about making sure kids eat from all five food groups, wash hands etc. I do lessons with kiddos, science experiments, reading, and loads of  outings. I feel I am an exceptional nanny and I do everything I can for the kiddos. Does MB not trust me? Should I not take it so personal...She also only wants very limited amount of TV (I agree with her) but even wants to dictate times this is allowed. I wish I had more say in it.

3. Reimbursements etc. When hired she said she wanted almost daily outings etc. Then she said she'd reimburse my expenses. Call me crazy but when it is 1.47 or a small amount I typically don't say anything. The other week when my paycheck was coming up I asked for $30 in total reimbursements over 2 weeks and gave outlines (museum tickets etc) and it was a huge deal! I really don't understand...

I have a few other things b

ut decided to cut this short. Any advice especially regarding item one is helpful. This is SO much more difficult than I thought it would be! Who knew 2 kiddos would be just as difficult as a classroom in many ways. [/quote]

The best to start bean a nanny is :get a new born,toddle is coming with the bag full of bad manages and spoiled by parents.

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