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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]your nanny isn't a numbers person, probably has never worked outside the nanny field and doesn't get it. She will probably continue to resent you and ask for more. I am a nanny who replaced a nanny like this a few months ago. The family was stressed because they hired her to do a share, then the nanny wanted more money, then refused to do the share, then continued to ask for more money. They ended giving her two weeks notice and hired me since I was looking for a new share partner for the child I was currently with. Just a couple of days ago they gave me a gift card to my favorite store and told me how happy they are with me. You can do better. Your nanny should be making your life easier, not more stressful.[/quote] I agree with this. I would resent her so much by now that I would find it hard to work with her. Personally, I think you need to tell her that you're starting over with compensation. You will no longer pay her insurance, but will instead increase her hourly wage by the same amount. That should bring her very close to $30/hr. If she expects that and $1100/mo insurance payment, you need to tell her you just can't afford it. You're overpaying and you know it.[/quote]
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