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[quote=Anonymous]A child at that age isn't going to expect his parents to suddenly start doing the exact same things that his nanny does. I think as long as the nanny doesn't mind doing it, which to me sounds like she doesn't, then it is a win-win for everyone involved. The baby doesn't have to spend so much time and energy and of course misery crying, he falls asleep comforted and in a timely manner and the nanny doesn't have to spend such a huge amount going in and out of the room coddling her charge.

The mother is just forming an assumption at this point. If I were in her shoes, I would take a wait-and-see approach. If the child did in fact start expecting his parents to lay down next to his bed, then as a mother, I would ask the nanny to cease doing this. But if he didn't, then I would let the nanny continue.

I would want my nanny to be happy with her job. A happy nanny = a happy child. My child. Whatever makes her job easier and more enjoyable, I am all for it.
Your MB doesn't sound like she is on the same team however.

Even if she does disagree, there are plenty worse things to get angry over.
This is truly nothing to even get miffed over.

I think your idea was ideal and it worked for both you and your charge.

If it causes issues later on, then deal with it then. Not now.[/quote]

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