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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think I would ask MB not to disclose anything more to me that she has not told her husband or is willing to tell her husband.  Then, if asked, I would tell the husband that I cannot get involved in this discussion.

What a mess!  [/quote]

Your change in answer from "no" to "I'd rather not be involved" tells him what he needs to know, but makes clear that you want no parts of this. Start looking for your next job, unless you want to be like the nanny in the divorce thread. This is about to blow up. [/quote]

Personally, I would actually try and downplay the fact that your answer is changing, even just hinting at the truth is getting too involved in all of this IMO. I'd probably phrase it like "You know DB, you've asked me that several times and honestly it makes me a bit uncomfortable, so I'd appreciate it if you wouldn't ask me these kinds of questions in the future". But I do agree that you should start looking for a new job, all of this is just SO unprofessional from both of them.[/quote]

I understand what you're saying,[b] but I personally feel like DB should know[/b]. His wife is an idiot for blabbing, and I think cheaters get away with it for so long because everyone is of the mind your business philosophy. At this point your job is over, OP, and I would have no qualms about subtley hinting at the truth. However I probably would have shut down that line of questioning the very first time he asked. [/quote]

Regardless of what you personally think, it is in NO way your business to interfere with someone else's marriage. Yes, this particular MB involved her nanny when she disclosed the boyfriend, but that does not give OP the right to insert her personal morals and tell the husband. She needs to maintain professionalism, even if her employers can't. [/quote]

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