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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. [b]You guys are so quick to jump on my case![/b] I don't think she is bad person in fact she is great with the kids. She is 22 and very mature for her age, which is why I am wondering about the drinking.

Question: how was it passive aggressive to knock on her door. I ask he usually in her off time if she would like anything if I am on the way out. Sometimes she said "no thanks" other times she will ask for something like nail polish remover or tampons or skim milk if I'm on the way to the store. [/quote]

Well yes... because you were quick to jump on her case. Nanny comes home drunk, says hi to you, and then stumbles up to bed to go to sleep - and your first reaction is so come freak out about it here? She is 22. All the more reason to not worry about it. I'd be a lot more concerned if your 22 year old nanny spent every night cooped up in her room, showing no signs of a normal and active social life.

I'm the PP who said it's passive aggressive - in this instance, it's PA because you were aware that she had come home very late the night before, was probably feeling at least slightly crappy from the drinking, and was probably still asleep. Clearly you were judging or at least questioning the fact that she'd been drinking - if you didn't mind or had a sense of humour about it, you'd let her sleep and wait for her to come out of her room instead of knocking on her door at 9am with a non-urgent matter. [/quote]

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