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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you waiting up with the kids for the nanny to get back at night? How did you find her?[/quote] No, she came in at about 2 am and I was on the couch watching a movie. She kinda stumbled up the stairs and was slurring the "oh hello, you're up late" but wasn't otherwise visibly intoxicated. I didn't "find her". Do you mean in the morning? [b]I knocked on her door at 9 to ask if she wanted anything from the store[/b] and she was groggy-ish.[/quote] 1. She is a fully grown adult and what she does in her off-duty time is absolutely none of your concern, as long as it does not endanger or somehow harm you/your family. 2. The bolded part - that's incredibly passive aggressive. You knew she came home late after drinking. Most people just want to sleep in and relax after a night like that. Was it absolutely necessary to knock on her door at 9am? :roll: If I were a live in nanny, I'd be pretty PO'd if my bosses pulled something like that. Your nanny is a human being and is allowed to have a life, despite living with you. Coming home drunk is normal human behaviour. I'm a live out nanny and stumble home drunk at least once every weekend, but the beauty of being a live out is that my bosses have no idea. You need to treat her like a live out when she is off duty. [/quote]
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