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[quote=nannydebsays]OP, avoiding or delaying an annual review meeting is just going to make the issue bigger. You need to be proactive, ask to meet with nanny, be prepared with a formal review sheet and a letter of recommendation, and discuss her job performance. You are going to need to deliver the "no extra money" talk as a good news/bad news/good news sandwich. Do not under any circumstances try to justify not offering more money this year as anything other than YOUR fault. "We loved you so much when we interviewed you that we went above and beyond our budget to afford you. That is a mistake we made, and our mistake means that we cannot afford to give a raise this year. We are so grateful for the job you do and the care you give our little MyKaela, and we hope you will be willing to stay with us under these circumstances." [/quote]
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