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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She is immature and self centered.  Whatever you do, don't tough out the year with her or you will be ready to kill her by the 11th month.  It's no way for either of you to spend the year.  Sit her down now and tell her that she needs to learn that in America, when someone asks you how your day went, the answer is "fine, and yours?" unless something really bad happens.  Give examples, vomiting illness, car accident, boyfriend dumps you, etc  Minor annoyances are of no interest or concern to anyone.  And tell her that for every minor annoyance she brings up, she needs to mention two fun/pleasant moments in the day.  Remind her that every time she complains, she is basically telling you that she hates her job, her life with your family and spending her day with your kids.  She should easily be able to see how that would make a HM/employer not feel great about continuing the relationship.  Then give her a couple weeks and if it doesn't get better, rematch.[/quote]

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