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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, other than picking up toys I do not do any child related activities. They have a full time housekeeper who does all laundry, meal prep, etc. But in those scenarios, the nanny is arranging for the kids not to be in her care for her benefit, not the parents. I don't think it is the same as the parents telling the nanny she has the day off because they are going to the beach. Instead, the nanny is rearranging the kids schedule so that she isn't inconvenienced by the drive. But, I will say, we have a very flexible and mutually respectful relationship, so maybe I"m just having a difficult time picturing this scenarios in my head. [/quote] I think there are solutions that don't involve leaving early too. Ie. You could agree to accommodate extra time every now and then (when not otherwise interfering with your plans) but only if earning your overtime rate for those hours (including for any additional commute dropping off at the baseball field creates). Or you could tell mb you'll still take the kids to their music lesson and watch them for the day as usual, but you have plans immediately after work, and bringing them to the beach won't get you home until 3 hours late, so someone else will have to drive them. [/quote]
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