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[quote=Anonymous]Hello lovely nannies! 
I have been with this family part time for about 3.5 almost 4 months. The job is 2 days a week. 8 hour days. 
The family is nice... But not super friendly.. I think I'm being spoiled by my other MB as I don't feel happy at this current job.

Family A (3 days a week) is absolutely wonderful! Kids love me and I love them! mb is always thankful and our parenting styles are very similar. We have yet to have a disagreement. I've been there for a year and a half. Almost 2 years! This family makes me so happy and As wired as it sounds it feels like we work together as a team! I've met the extended family and also get along very well with them! This job is very close to home. About 5 min drive

Family B (2 days a week) I didn't get that feeling. That excited feeling like this is the right position! I had been looking to fill the other 2 days as I can't survive off just family A! The parent are nice enough but the boy doesn't like me. And I feel like Mb looks down on me and doesn't appreciate me. She says thank you but I'm just not feeling the respect! I can't put it into words bug I feel like she sees me as an accessory almost. Eldest charge is very violent and is not connecting with me. Says he doesn't like me and smirks when I disapline him. I feel wiped out emotionally by the end of the day. I've been here almost 4 months and have yet to feel a closeness with the kids. Extended family is sweet on MB's side but also very bossy! DB's mom is flat out RUDE and thinks I am servent! It's taken me a long time to find a job that dots with my other family and I don't really want to go down that road again but I'm not happy and I dread the work day. 
Commute is 30 mins in traffic and requires me to be up at 6. Other job is only up at 7!

Feels good to vent! Any suggestions appreciated [/quote]

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