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For me it makes more sense to let parents know how I do things. If that's not what they want, thank you very much.

Also, my references will convey that don't hesitate to do whatever is best for the child in any given situation.

Nannies tend to be either:
1. Able to "take charge" sort of person
    ....that's why the child is called your "charge"
2. "Doormat" sort of person
    ....you really don't know what to do unless you've been specifically told

In my opinion, clear thinking parents should opt for the first. There will always be circumstances that no one anticipated, and you want the nanny to have the intelligence, experience and confidence to make the best decision in the moment.

The "doormat" is fine for a Mother's helper when constant direction is available.

Whenever there's a new nanny, of course she must first learn the nature of the child and the family dynamics, before it's clear what the child needs. And then she must be a diligent observer to recognize the child's developing needs as time goes on.

It should be said that hiring a nanny requires a certain amount of relinquishing "control". Not all parents are ready for this and should not become absent. Many problems arise from this unsolved dilemma, as it's virtually impossible to be in control and absent at the same time. Hence, the negative connotation of "absentee management".

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