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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Agree with PP. the families acting like this is a non issue are fooling themselves. Your APs are bemoaning this fact behind your backs. Not everything is metro accessible or easily metro accessible. A 45 minute bus or train ride when it would have taken 15-20 minutes to drive is not "fun" or an "experience" beyond the first time. It's also not cool constantly being that girl bumming rides because your family isn't providing one of the most basic things an AP expects. If you don't have a car I get it, but if you do have a car but are just too self involved to let her use it do not fool yourself into thinking she doesn't notice or care. [/quote]

I'm the OP. We don't own a car. We take the bus, bike, Metro or a cab or ZipCar everywhere and we do just fine. Yes, things take a little longer to get to, but you build that into your trip, bring your phone to occupy yourself, and it's fine. We are very upfront about this when we match and have found many candidates that don't like to drive or that have similar desire to not drive and willingness to deal with some irritation due to cost and environmental concerns. It's why we were considering offering an extra $50 a month for personal transportation - so they can use the typical bus and Metro but also so they can ocassionally cab it just like we do.

I disagree that you need a car for a good life. The inability to consider spending an additional 20 minutes getting to Target to buy $100 worth of useless plastic is a major problem in this country.  [/quote]

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