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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I've seen this alot. Many Au Pairs will slack off in the weeks before they leave. Esp Au Pairs who have been unhappy, resentful, entitled, lazy, etc. I bet if you held a small going away bonus infront of her she'd shape up. (Don't do this though, she doesn't deserve it). Try having a sit down with her and explain that you're still paying her to do a job and just because she will be leaving in several weeks doesn't give her the right to slack off. You're not slacking off on pay so she shouldn't be slacking off on her duties. Don't be passive aggressive. She's probably being passive aggressive so you should be very upfront with her and lay down your expectations. Make it awkward for her if you have to.[/quote] That is an incredibly hostile response. OP, I recommend talking with her a little more kindly and NOT making things awkward. Also PP, who are you to say this AP doesn't deserve a bonus? Maybe she's been brilliant all along but is experiencing some anxiety about the upcoming transition and her work is starting to suffer - which needs to be addressed, but doesn't discredit the two years she's been with them. Lord.[/quote]
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