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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was interviewing for a new position for the past week. It was so perfect. Adorable kid, very friendly parents, on the books, decent pay, short commute, similar philosophy, and it just felt so right. I wasn't even nervous during the interview. Everything seemed to click. I was honestly sure I was going to get it. I even bought a couple things at Target for a fun first activity.

And then they tell me I was their second choice. I didn't get it.

I need a job so badly. I'm away from family, friends, familiar surroundings. I've been crying since yesterday. [/quote] It was probably for the best? I've been a similar situation. In fact I drove to their house, out of state to meet the little boy. MB had assured me that me doing this did not mean I would have the job and I said I understand, but felt like I was going to seal the deal so to speak. The family moved into my state, and we did another trial run and I thought, I for sure had it. I became so attached to this little boy. Looking forward to how life would be I was excited for the job. A few goes after my trial though. Later ht day, MB called and stated she thought I was good with the little boy, but they had gone with another candidate. I cried. An was depressed for weeks, I couldn't possibly see a better job then that one. I kept telling myself, 'if I didn't get it, then it must not be meant, right?'  I became depressed and hated life. I had other interviews lined up but thought about canceling. I needed some, 'me' time. I choose to not cancel and well, what do I have to lose. I gave t a shot an saw nothing but darkness and then I saw a tunnel and it jus Thor brighter, and brighter! Now I could not be happier with my current NF. I adore my charge. Precious little one. I am so glad my faith lifted me. I did pray about it-not sayin you should because I don't know if you're religious. BUT it helped. This job, is where I'm suppose to be and I would not have t any other way bat the time, though I could not see that. I've been doing so well. The MB that did not offer me the job, we stayed in touch and now I have play dates with their son and his current nanny. I must say, she's a great fit for them and hey choose well! Good luck. It all worked out for me, I'm sure it will for you! As long as you try, keep your chin up! :)[/quote]

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