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[quote=Anonymous]I could really use some advice on quitting without notice. I know this isn't the best way to handle the situation, but I feel like it is the only way. I am currently working a temporary position to and have found that it is not a good match what so ever. Of course the money is nice, but it is not needed, and I've reached the realization that I'd be happier removing myself from this working in such a stressful environment. When I interviewed for the position, it was made clear to me that it would be a temporary position, which I have/had no problems with. We agreed on the pay, schedule, and job duties. Db informed me that both he and MB would be working full time out of the home, but I am nearly 1 1/2 weeks into this position and DB still hasn't gone to work. He has been home every day that I've worked, aside from occasional sitting, and stays with us the entire time. He doesn't boss me around or interfere with my discipline/decisions but he is really starting to get on my nerves. MB works very long hours and is typically gone from the house from 7:45-6:00. DB however is home for most of the day aside from running an occasional errand. It also really bothers me that they both constantly make comments about how much they are paying for childcare. I make $15/hr watching 2 children and the children also go to preschool in the mornings which is also quite expensive. They make comments at least a couple times a day, things like "Oh half of our income goes to childcare" or "We can't have any fun because childcare eats up all of our money", and these comments are starting to make me feel really uncomfortable. They keep adding on more and more hours, last week I worked over 60 hours which was exhausting, especially after pulling two 16 hour shifts. They keep adding on more and more occasional babysitting and make me feel really guilty if I say no. They keep trying to make me make up hours that they had previously agreed to pay for without making them up. I haven't really been able to bond with the younger son. He actually really gets on my nerves. The older son and I get along great but I know he is starting to sense some discomfort on my end. I know quitting without giving notice is not the right way to go about things, but I honestly feel like it is the only way, especially due to the fact that it is only a temporary position. I would love to hear what you guys think and could really use your help on deciding what and how to do it.[/quote]
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