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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd be kind of freaked out if asked. Becoming someone's guardian is so much more than being a nanny to their kids! Since I don't have any kids of my own, and I am not yet married, I would be afraid of something happening to the parents and then my whole life being changed. Not just in the way that suddenly you have kid(s) to care for like they were your own, but that it might affect me with finding a husband, planning my own future with kids, things I would want to go do before having my own children.

I wouldn't mind being put down as like a "permanent" nanny for kids that I had been working with for a while and really cared about, so that I could still care for them while say their aunt who is not as good with kids but named guardian, has some built-in help... But I don't think I could be their guardian. Someone that decides to have their own kids, or even adopt or foster kids, make a HUGE decision to do so, but in the end that is THEIR decision and have figured out on WHEN to go ahead and start with that in their lives. There is too much uncertainty with it for me, not something that can be planned around which isn't easy for someone with my personality that likes to have plans and stuff.[/quote]

Um...kay.  So you think they shouldn't ask their nanny because YOU are ready for kids?

OP, if you think this is what you want, then you are obviously close to your nanny.  Ask her what she thinks. [/quote]

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