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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I understand that this is an upsetting situation, but I really think you need to get some perspective here. It is your job to be with these children 40 (and for some of us more) hours a week. At the end of the day though, we go home, they are not our children. And there always has to be the knowledge that it is not permanent. Part of the makings of a good nanny is the ability to detach, on some levels, that is why we can approach difficult situations more successful than parents some times. [/quote] You don't make up the rules ("Part of being a good nanny is the ability to deatach").. Not that's not part of making a good nanny. I'd rather have OP caring for my children over you ANY day. You don't just choose to care. If you're working full time for years, you will definitely become attached to the children. You watch them grow, you're with them more waking hours then their own parents. It's natural to have emotions, and it's natural to feel sad when you have to end your job. OP's a big girl, she'll get over it.. But stop playing Dr. Phil and stop telling her what makes a good nanny.. Because you obviously don't know..[/quote] +1 It should be hard to say goodbye to children you've grown to love! If after two years you don't love the kids you spend 40+ hours a week with, there's something wrong with YOU.[/quote]
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