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[quote=Anonymous]I think it's great that you love your charge, and you sound like a great nanny. However, you really need to learn to separate yourself from your job. The feelings that you are having are understandable, but not professional. You can be a loving nanny, while still maintaining a professional relationship. I'm not trying to "scold" you or anything obnoxious like that (at least on purpose). I get where you are coming from, and if things are the way you describe, it's pretty sad for your charge that he gets to see his parents so rarely. You still need to protect yourself by stepping back and realizing you are not his parent. If you don't think you can do this, you may need to find a job with fewer hours (less time to become so attached) or a different profession altogether. Keep in mind that if your life is based entirely around your charge's life, you will have a very hard time starting that family of your own.[/quote]
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