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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No to the nanny chorus. The OP instructed her nanny to not stop giving the baby dairy. The nanny did it anyway. This is a big problem and its not a nanny that would I trust. [/quote]

What if the baby had died because of OPs stupidity?  Fire her, OP, you need a "yes maam" nanny.  The line is already forming with parents who want to hire your nanny and these parents will listen to her because she is experienced.  You are not worthy of yohr nannyand I am not a nanny.[/quote]

Food elimination to test for intolerance is not done willy nilly by the nanny.
If you suspect that your child is allergic to dairy, then you eliminate that, just that, while giving everything else the child usually has, and not introducing new foods. Then after the test period, if the child has not shown symptoms, you can conclude that it is an allergy to dairy.

If your nanny eliminates dairy and MB thinks fruit juice is the culprit and cuts that back too, you don't know what was causing what.
If your nanny eliminates dairy and MB gave a dinner with pine nuts, something baby's never had, it could be the pine nuts or the milk. You just don't know.

While you eliminate dairy, you need to substitute other sources of same nutrition, perhaps soymilk or cheese, etc. You don't just take away milk from a 16 month old for who knows how long of a period the nanny did this.

All those nannies saying your nanny knew better and you should feel lucky are just plain wrong. These are big decisions and she should've told you what she was doing. She clearly doesn't know her boundaries and thinks of herself as a co-parent than a nanny.[/quote]

Who knows what your nanny is giving your child or not giving your child on her hunch that it's good or bad? She thought milk was bad for your child. Maybe she thinks using too many diapers is bad for the environment too and your child is getting more diaper rashes that he/she should right now. Good communication is key to a successful nanny parent relationship. Your nanny clearly does not recognize this.[/quote]

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