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[quote=Anonymous]OP here is what you do. 1) Apologize for not following up sooner on her advice. She was right, you were wrong. Tell her so. 2) Let her know that you're new parents and new to having nannies but clearly her expertise is invaluable, and in the future you will respect her expertise and you want her to feel like she can be open with you both about her concerns or ideas about DC and trust that you'll hear her out and follow-up with your doctor on any issues she feels strongly about. 3) Tell her that clearly history has proven her right, but in the future you'd like to know if she's making any changes to your child's diet etc. Assure her that you know she eliminated dairy for DCs benefit, and from now on you will be hearing her concerns and won't ask her to do anything that is making him sick. 4) Thank your lucky stars your nanny cares more about your child than your good opinion. She's making the toughest call a nanny ever has to - doing what is right for the child when the parents aren't on board.[/quote]
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