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[quote=Anonymous]Move forward with your notice and plans to begin the new job. You said yourself that your commute will be much better. That is something your current MB cannot compete with. If your current MB has a history of guilting you into things is that really a relationship you want to continue? If the email you received from MB's cousin was snarky then she really wasn't being understanding. Someone who understands doesn't send a snarky email. Personally I wouldn't want to work for someone who sends me snarky emails before the job even begins. Imagine what would happen if you did something to irritate her during your employment with her. If for some reason the work environment becomes hostile during your notice period then you finish out that week (if you can) and let them know you will not be returning the following week due to the hostile working environment. You are an at-will employee who can leave at any time. When MB brings up you staying remain firm in your decision. "MB, I have really enjoyed working for your family over the past year. I understand you would like me to reconsider my decision, however I made the decision that is best for me. I would really like to finish out my notice with your family and end on a positive note. Please respect my decision. I am happy to have the new nanny you hire shadow me for a few days if that would make things easier for you in terms of training the new nanny." Don't cave.[/quote]
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