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Maybe she doesn't like you ? maybe you don't pay enough? maybe she works more hours and isn't compensated for them. When I was a live-in I worked for a family that expected a lot of housework out of me, but as I got older and gained more experience, I noticed families that hired me did not expect as much housework and only cared about me focusing on the child. But...now that I look back, I wish I would have just looked for a family to work for who didn't care so much about the housework aspect.
Sometimes when you're young, people tend to take advantage and go over board with the housework thing. After 8 months I couldn't take it anymore so I quit . I just wasn't comfortable working for those people. They never thanked me for all my hard work. The MB was so selfish. She was the type of person to take over any conversation and turn it into sonething about her.
I felt self conscious about sitting , like they are watching me and wondering why I am sitting down to eat. I found a different type of job with different more caring people that I felt happier about. Try to realize it may also be you. Not all people are a joy to work for...but that doesn't mean you have to be stuck with them forever.
Sometimes when you're young, people tend to take advantage and go over board with the housework thing. After 8 months I couldn't take it anymore so I quit . I just wasn't comfortable working for those people. They never thanked me for all my hard work. The MB was so selfish. She was the type of person to take over any conversation and turn it into sonething about her.
I felt self conscious about sitting , like they are watching me and wondering why I am sitting down to eat. I found a different type of job with different more caring people that I felt happier about. Try to realize it may also be you. Not all people are a joy to work for...but that doesn't mean you have to be stuck with them forever.
Sadly, in this country children are not valued, and individual care of children is especially not valued.Therefore, if they think you are intelligent/attractive/fill in the blank with your apparent virtue, you should consider it beneath you to care for children. It's ridiculous.
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