Au pairs last day-male

[Anonymous]

Any ideas on gift/token for our male au pair on his last day with us? He’s staying in the country as a student. We had a female last time and gave jewelry.

[Anonymous]

What's your price range?
Can you tell us anything about his hobbies?

[Anonymous]

Cash bonus. Christmas ornament with the kids' picture?

[Anonymous]

iPad, apple watch, new phone, cash.

[Anonymous]

Cash. We appreciate cash the most.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Any ideas on gift/token for our male au pair on his last day with us? He’s staying in the country as a student. We had a female last time and gave jewelry.

Is he doing a travel month? We did a keepsake book with pictures that were taken during the year. He was traveling so we also did a photo album with gift cards to his favorite places in a few of the picture pockets. Of course cash is nice, but it's pretty impersonal and is quickly spent. If you had a good year together, there will be a time later in life where pickign up the keepsake book or photos will be a nice moment for someone to reflect on past experiences.

[Anonymous]

I think all the suggestions are nice, but I fear we "project" onto our au pairs in this situation and give them something sentimental when they really might not want that. While a couple of my 5 past APs would have appreciated it, the majority were thrilled with some cash and a nice dinner. For a rock star, I got her two tickets to see Coldplay in a city she was visiting for her travel month.

[Anonymous]

Pictures with the kids and cash/gift card.

[Anonymous]

Cash. They want money for studies (or depending on their home country, to support their parents), They have 1000000 photos of your kids on their phones. They do not want keepsake albums (or they will make their own, better, bedazzled versions). Just give them a white envelope with cash or western union them cash.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think all the suggestions are nice, but I fear we "project" onto our au pairs in this situation and give them something sentimental when they really might not want that. While a couple of my 5 past APs would have appreciated it, the majority were thrilled with some cash and a nice dinner. For a rock star, I got her two tickets to see Coldplay in a city she was visiting for her travel month.

This. Christmas ornament with pics of OP kids?

[Anonymous]

We went with cash and an air fryer for his new apartment and living on his own.

[Anonymous]

Anything that might be useful for his classes will be great