What to look for in nanny for older kids

[Anonymous]

We are creating a job posting for a nanny for our kids, who are 4-8. All are in school during the day, and summer came during the summer. Nanny is there to drive them around, help with homework (not the material/tutoring, just make sure they sit down and start doing it), and evening meal/routine.

Would appreciate tips on what to look for in replies to job posting and interview for older kids - is it just about how well they get along with the kids during the meeting? (Assuming they have a clean background check, good references.)

Any tips for being a good employer in a long-term nanny relationship also appreciated- would love to find someone who can be with our family for years.

[Anonymous]

I would definitely look for someone who has taught or nannies those ages before. It a totally different ball game than with babies and toddlers.

Yes, have your kids meet her and interact with her but don’t put too much stock into the meeting.

Your kids have to know that, just like their teachers, what nanny says goes.

[Anonymous]

If you’re planning to hire a foreign-born nanny, make sure she can read and write in English. This is vitally important at your kids ages.

If budget permits, I would hire a college graduate with teaching experience. Former teachers can handle anything.

Be a good employer by backing up the nanny.

[Anonymous]

We did this - 2pm to 7pm and included kid laundry in the duties as well as a few other things.

We looked for someone who was able to be strict but kind, and was very organized. It was our nanny who figured out that one of our kids did best memorizing for tests by being physical - multiplication quiz on the trampoline, spelling test review while skipping or jumping rope, etc.