20 something and sexual

[Anonymous]

Au pair is sleeping around. Said au pair is not in a serious relationship. We’re still in a pandemic. Can someone please help me figure out what realistic expectations I should have?

[Anonymous]

The advice given by the au pair agencies is that they are to follow CDC guidelines unless otherwise agreement with host family. She putting the community at risk. It may be worth a rematch if she doesn’t comprehend this.

[Anonymous]

Thank you so much for the response. I truly appreciate it. It makes me realize I am not being callous or unreasonable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Au pair is sleeping around. Said au pair is not in a serious relationship. We’re still in a pandemic. Can someone please help me figure out what realistic expectations I should have?

What do you mean by sleeping around and how do you know the intimate details of her sex life?

If you rematch can you post her profile. We are lookig for an AP and aren't Branch Covidians and pay more than the mandatory stipends don't involve ourselves in our Auapairs sex life. Thanks in advance.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Au pair is sleeping around. Said au pair is not in a serious relationship. We’re still in a pandemic. Can someone please help me figure out what realistic expectations I should have?

What do you mean by sleeping around and how do you know the intimate details of her sex life?

If you rematch can you post her profile. We are lookig for an AP and aren't Branch Covidians and pay more than the mandatory stipends don't involve ourselves in our Auapairs sex life. Thanks in advance.

Spoken like an au pair stirring the pot. Bye, girl.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Au pair is sleeping around. Said au pair is not in a serious relationship. We’re still in a pandemic. Can someone please help me figure out what realistic expectations I should have?

What do you mean by sleeping around and how do you know the intimate details of her sex life?

If you rematch can you post her profile. We are lookig for an AP and aren't Branch Covidians and pay more than the mandatory stipends don't involve ourselves in our Auapairs sex life. Thanks in advance.

Spoken like an au pair stirring the pot. Bye, girl.

We will soon be reading their obituary

OP, you are 100% in the right. Rematch.

[Anonymous]

Op sounds kinda pervy. Yuck.

[Anonymous]

I wasnt being pervy or listening for noises. I found a pregnancy test in bathroom trash. It wasnt even buried/hidden under other trash. Best case scenario would have been if she wouldve worn a mask around the house and while handling my 14 month old until she got tested for covid and results came back. All she wouldve had to say to me was she was feeling kinda sick. Since she uses my car to go shopping and hang out with 2 friends which is ok by me that is enough risk to catch covid. If it werent for the pandemic, who cares?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wasnt being pervy or listening for noises. I found a pregnancy test in bathroom trash. It wasnt even buried/hidden under other trash. Best case scenario would have been if she wouldve worn a mask around the house and while handling my 14 month old until she got tested for covid and results came back. All she wouldve had to say to me was she was feeling kinda sick. Since she uses my car to go shopping and hang out with 2 friends which is ok by me that is enough risk to catch covid. If it werent for the pandemic, who cares?

So rematch, and list risky behavior re: covid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wasnt being pervy or listening for noises. I found a pregnancy test in bathroom trash. It wasnt even buried/hidden under other trash. Best case scenario would have been if she wouldve worn a mask around the house and while handling my 14 month old until she got tested for covid and results came back. All she wouldve had to say to me was she was feeling kinda sick. Since she uses my car to go shopping and hang out with 2 friends which is ok by me that is enough risk to catch covid. If it werent for the pandemic, who cares?

So you are saying "sleeping around" and "sexual" about a woman who has sex - you absolutely sound pervy. Hopefully she will make it to a safer house. Yikes!

[Anonymous]

I accept you the way you are! Muah!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wasnt being pervy or listening for noises. I found a pregnancy test in bathroom trash. It wasnt even buried/hidden under other trash. Best case scenario would have been if she wouldve worn a mask around the house and while handling my 14 month old until she got tested for covid and results came back. All she wouldve had to say to me was she was feeling kinda sick. Since she uses my car to go shopping and hang out with 2 friends which is ok by me that is enough risk to catch covid. If it werent for the pandemic, who cares?

Even with a mask and a a negative test, that is not guarantee for being in the clear. I would rematch. What are your house rules for covid protocols? If the au pair does not like it,she can rematch.