OMG I just received this from AupairCare, anyone knows what happened?

[Anonymous]

Dear Au Pairs and Host Families,

We are deeply saddened to inform you about a Colombian au pair and host father in New Jersey whose lives were lost this weekend in a tragic event. Our hearts are broken, and our thoughts are with the natural family, host family and all of our AuPairCare family.

AuPairCare is working with authorities to provide support for the ongoing investigation. We are providing grief counseling and additional support services for the families in the days to come. Please don’t hesitate to reach out to your Area Director with any questions or concerns.

Sincerely,

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Dear Au Pairs and Host Families,

We are deeply saddened to inform you about a Colombian au pair and host father in New Jersey whose lives were lost this weekend in a tragic event. Our hearts are broken, and our thoughts are with the natural family, host family and all of our AuPairCare family.

AuPairCare is working with authorities to provide support for the ongoing investigation. We are providing grief counseling and additional support services for the families in the days to come. Please don’t hesitate to reach out to your Area Director with any questions or concerns.

Sincerely,

OMG I googled and found this:
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7321129/Boyfriend-murdered-au-pair-charged-stabbed-death-New-Jersey-street.html

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Dear Au Pairs and Host Families,

We are deeply saddened to inform you about a Colombian au pair and host father in New Jersey whose lives were lost this weekend in a tragic event. Our hearts are broken, and our thoughts are with the natural family, host family and all of our AuPairCare family.

AuPairCare is working with authorities to provide support for the ongoing investigation. We are providing grief counseling and additional support services for the families in the days to come. Please don’t hesitate to reach out to your Area Director with any questions or concerns.

Sincerely,

OMG I googled and found this:
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7321129/Boyfriend-murdered-au-pair-charged-stabbed-death-New-Jersey-street.html

I am still the OP, I am at lost for words, very sad, about to call it a day and go home.

[Anonymous]

So so sad. I have been trying to figure out of it she was really an Au Pair. The news called her a nanny too and many people don’t know what au pair means.

I also read the AP had given her boyfriend keys to the house.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So so sad. I have been trying to figure out of it she was really an Au Pair. The news called her a nanny too and many people don’t know what au pair means.

I also read the AP had given her boyfriend keys to the house.

Oh wow, I think she was probably an AP, otherwise AuPaicare would not have contacted host families. Where did you read about the key?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So so sad. I have been trying to figure out of it she was really an Au Pair. The news called her a nanny too and many people don’t know what au pair means.

I also read the AP had given her boyfriend keys to the house.

Oh wow, I think she was probably an AP, otherwise AuPaicare would not have contacted host families. Where did you read about the key?

[/url]http://s.nj.com/Q4u4GMY


By Anthony G. Attrino | NJ Advance Media for NJ.com , Alex Napoliello | NJ Advance Media for NJ.com and Blake Nelson | NJ Advance Media for NJ.com

"The New Jersey man accused in a double-killing used a key his au pair girlfriend gave him to enter a Maplewood home early Saturday, stabbed the woman’s boss to death and then chased her down the street to attack her with a knife because she tried to end their relationship, authorities said in court documents."

[Anonymous]

Story on key


https://www.nytimes.com/2019/08/05/nyregion/maplewood-murder-david-kimowitz-nanny.html

[Anonymous]

Yes, this happened in my town. Horrifying doesn't begin to describe it.

[Anonymous]

So so sad! And really scary! This is probably the elephant in the room, how do you get to a stage where AP is empowered to give key to boyfriend? I just had to ask.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So so sad! And really scary! This is probably the elephant in the room, how do you get to a stage where AP is empowered to give key to boyfriend? I just had to ask.

Never. And this is why I would never allow overnight guests. But everyone has their own comfort zone, I guess.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So so sad! And really scary! This is probably the elephant in the room, how do you get to a stage where AP is empowered to give key to boyfriend? I just had to ask.

I have a feeling the HF has no idea the boyfriend had a key. Why would he need a key unless he was coming into the house when HF wasn’t home? So sad, they probably had no idea what was going on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So so sad! And really scary! This is probably the elephant in the room, how do you get to a stage where AP is empowered to give key to boyfriend? I just had to ask.

I have a feeling the HF has no idea the boyfriend had a key. Why would he need a key unless he was coming into the house when HF wasn’t home? So sad, they probably had no idea what was going on.

This is probably what was going on, because it doesn't make any sense that any HM would allow that!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So so sad! And really scary! This is probably the elephant in the room, how do you get to a stage where AP is empowered to give key to boyfriend? I just had to ask.

Never. And this is why I would never allow overnight guests. But everyone has their own comfort zone, I guess.

Totally agree with, take your business out of my house!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So so sad! And really scary! This is probably the elephant in the room, how do you get to a stage where AP is empowered to give key to boyfriend? I just had to ask.

I have a feeling the HF has no idea the boyfriend had a key. Why would he need a key unless he was coming into the house when HF wasn’t home? So sad, they probably had no idea what was going on.

This is probably what was going on, because it doesn't make any sense that any HM would allow that!

Also we have security camera that records who comes and goes, I don't check it all the time but i will definitely notice if some guy was coming to my house often. (Btw if you live in DC, they will reimburse your security camera $ because it helps prevent/solve crimes)

[Anonymous]

This story is so scary. Especially after all the threads here about APs going out on dates and being on tinder. Reminds me of a thread awhile back about an APs creepy BF. This makes me want to leave the program.