Why would my au pair be logging on to Cultural Care?
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Anonymous
| She is not extending and it’s not time to make travel plans back home yet. What resources are on the site for au pairs? I sometimes wonder if she’s going to up and bail out...as in go home and call it quits. But would there be some other reason she’s logging in to her account? |
Anonymous
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Who knows.
Maybe shes looking for a picture she placed up there Maybe shes looking for insurance information. Maybe she wants to see what your family profile said about something specific. maybe she forgot a birthday and wants to check it. |
Anonymous
| There are a million reasons... There are tons of resources on the site for au pairs.... You sound sort of nuts... |
Anonymous
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Maybe she wants to extend after all, but not with your family....
How do you know she’s logging on? |
Anonymous
Contact information shows last login time/date. |
Anonymous
| Question is rather why are YOU stalking your au pair?!! |
Anonymous
| Is she looking for tax info? |
Anonymous
It’s pretty clear she is at most half-hearted in her commitment to staying in the US for a year. She has family scheduled to visit later this month (planned long ago), and I’m curious as to whether she will pull the plug once their travel here is complete. |
Anonymous
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OK, but checking is only causing you grief and stress.
Stop checking and have a Face-to-Face meeting to go over how things are going. Just speculating is only going to make you worry more. |
Anonymous
To be honest, we’d be okay if she checked out early. |
Anonymous
Ok, then why are you stalking her? People are so so weird! |
Anonymous
Because having some idea of whether you’ll need child care on short notice is important? |
Anonymous
OP, it sounds like you have a terrible relationship with your AP. Why not rematch and be done? |