Goodbye

[Anonymous]

I feel like I do so much for you & your family. I feel it's all taken for granted. I love & care for your kids like they are my own. The is aboulsluty nothing in the world I wouldn't do to keep them safe, happy & healthy. I feel you both put down the connection & influence I have made in your children lives.

I have LOVED and cared for them. I have changed diapers, bathed them, potty trained them. I have been thrown up on and have been used as a tissue. I have been peeed and poped on. I have been spit up on. Been used as a napkin. And still I love your kids!

I have been hugged & kissed! Been told I love you. Shared many giggles. Played millions game, songs books. Shared so many amazing memories. That I'll always cherish them all!

I have witnessed so many first. The first time they rolled over, first step, first word. Every time I just said they were so close to doing it. So you as the parents could see their first.

I keep your home organized & clean. I not only clean up after your kids but also the two of you. Do the laundry.

I have given so much of myself to your family over the years. I am so tired & feel unappreciated! I hope when I am gone, you finally see all I did for your family.

[Anonymous]

Bye

[Anonymous]

Some employers will see your connection and contribution to their children and others never will. It is hard for some parents to admit that you are important to their children and they feel very jealous and competitive in regard to their children's love for their nanny.

You become a nanny and work with children for the children, OP.

And remember that being unappreciated by a boss or employer is not an issue that only nannies face.

[Anonymous]

When you work with children and for children, you are always working on the side of the angels. If all your employers are good for is a paycheck - then take it and know that you are valuable and appreciated by the children.

[Anonymous]

You sound like you are definitely worth your weight in pure gold OP!

And if your Nanny Family cannot see this clearly, then they sure will when you leave them for good.

[Anonymous]

Why don't parents thank these nannies once in a while?

[Anonymous]

Nanny here. I agree with PP. Could have written the exact same words.

[Anonymous]

I wonder if a lot of nannies are too sensitive.
Most good nannies could have written something like this, many are entitled and unappreciative themselves.
They are paid well, treated well, what more do they need?

Busy professional parents have a lot going on and their bosses are showing up every day to pat them on the back.
Focus on getting your confidence and self worth somewhere else and cut these parents a break.
I’m sure they’ll be happy to start anew with a more appreciative nanny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if a lot of nannies are too sensitive.
Most good nannies could have written something like this, many are entitled and unappreciative themselves.
They are paid well, treated well, what more do they need?

Busy professional parents have a lot going on and their bosses are showing up every day to pat them on the back.
Focus on getting your confidence and self worth somewhere else and cut these parents a break.
I’m sure they’ll be happy to start anew with a more appreciative nanny.

I meant to say their bosses are ‘not’ showing up every day to thank them.

Also why is that nannies take so much for granted and rarely want to work with their employer as the kids are maturing.
I’d love to see a similar summary from OPs employer

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if a lot of nannies are too sensitive.
Most good nannies could have written something like this, many are entitled and unappreciative themselves.
They are paid well, treated well, what more do they need?

Busy professional parents have a lot going on and their bosses are showing up every day to pat them on the back.
Focus on getting your confidence and self worth somewhere else and cut these parents a break.
I’m sure they’ll be happy to start anew with a more appreciative nanny.

I meant to say their bosses are ‘not’ showing up every day to thank them.

Also why is that nannies take so much for granted and rarely want to work with their employer as the kids are maturing.
I’d love to see a similar summary from OPs employer

How about you thank your child's nanny one a week?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder if a lot of nannies are too sensitive.
Most good nannies could have written something like this, many are entitled and unappreciative themselves.
They are paid well, treated well, what more do they need?

Busy professional parents have a lot going on and their bosses are showing up every day to pat them on the back.
Focus on getting your confidence and self worth somewhere else and cut these parents a break.
I’m sure they’ll be happy to start anew with a more appreciative nanny.

I meant to say their bosses are ‘not’ showing up every day to thank them.

Also why is that nannies take so much for granted and rarely want to work with their employer as the kids are maturing.
I’d love to see a similar summary from OPs employer

How about you thank your child's nanny one a week?

*once

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why don't parents thank these nannies once in a while?

Because they are jerks and want money. If they really were good they wouldn’t be leaving their kids with other people to raise them for them so they can make money and live a certain lifestyle.